I picked up these interesting insights about the stages in relationships from a workshop I attended many moons ago. Everytime I share this information with others, I will receive many requests to share it with more people because my friends have found it so useful for them.
Resharing it here with you in hope that it can help you too.
All relationships follow the following steps:
Stage 1: HONEYMOON
When we fall in love, everyone falls immediately into the honeymoon stage.
The honeymoon stage is where everything looks rosy and your partner looks like the perfect mate for you. During honeymoon stage, your partner just seems like a really amazing person who can do no wrong! Everything they do feels just so.... PERFECT.
However, how long you stay in this stage is quite a different thing. The more independent you are, the shorter this stage will be. Generally, really independent people have a honeymoon period of like 5 minutes! ;)
In this stage, one often feels like they have found the right person. Unfortunately, this has nothing to do with love. Instead, it is just a form of neediness. It feels really like we found someone who could meet all our needs
From a psychology point of view, every relationship starts off for the wrong reason of NEEDS FULFILLMENT. This applies not just to our relationship with our partners but also with our new jobs, new bosses, new found friends or even new hobbies.
During honeymoon, you feel really good and happy. For example, during the honeymoon period in your job, you are happy and carefree and always smiling and you make coffee for everyone.
In this period, we feel wonderful because our needs are met, but also because everything we like about ourselves, we project onto this new partner,
All good things though, come to an end. Once this period is over, we go into the next stage.
The honeymoon stage is where everything looks rosy and your partner looks like the perfect mate for you. During honeymoon stage, your partner just seems like a really amazing person who can do no wrong! Everything they do feels just so.... PERFECT.
However, how long you stay in this stage is quite a different thing. The more independent you are, the shorter this stage will be. Generally, really independent people have a honeymoon period of like 5 minutes! ;)
In this stage, one often feels like they have found the right person. Unfortunately, this has nothing to do with love. Instead, it is just a form of neediness. It feels really like we found someone who could meet all our needs
From a psychology point of view, every relationship starts off for the wrong reason of NEEDS FULFILLMENT. This applies not just to our relationship with our partners but also with our new jobs, new bosses, new found friends or even new hobbies.
During honeymoon, you feel really good and happy. For example, during the honeymoon period in your job, you are happy and carefree and always smiling and you make coffee for everyone.
In this period, we feel wonderful because our needs are met, but also because everything we like about ourselves, we project onto this new partner,
All good things though, come to an end. Once this period is over, we go into the next stage.
Stage 2: POWER STRUGGLE
The power struggle stage is when you start to realize the new job is not as rosy as it looks or your new partner is not as perfect as you think. The very same thing that attracted you to this person suddenly becomes the worst characteristic... For example, in honeymoon, you may find that your boyfriend thrifty and that is such a great thing to feels more financially secured to be with someone thifty... but come power struggle, you may wonder if you got together with a scrooge who is even particular about every single cent he spends on you!
There are quite a few subset stages inside the power struggle stage.
After the shadow stage, you go into the dependent independent stage.
The independent person will start to feel alot of temptations and suddenly, it seems as if the grass is always greener on the other side. They look confident on the outside but are in actual fact heading for the graveyard.
The dependent partner will seem to be the one with all the problems and the relationship will polarize. The amount of dependence you have, the other party will play out the exact same amount of independence. Vice versus.
Therefore, if you are the independent partner, do the opposite of what your mind tells you to. When your dependent partner starts looking more and more like a vampire, the right thing to do is not to run away. The right thing to do is the exact opposite- to lean towards your partner because we need to understand that the feelings that she is showing us is the emotions that we are suppressing within.
If you are the dependent one, however, it is time to let go and move forward. When you are holding on, your attractiveness level to your independent partner goes down. It goes even furthur down once you become needy. You are just taking from him if you say, "he is the source of my happiness!"
No one can give you happiness. It is all within you.
There are quite a few subset stages inside the power struggle stage.
(a) Shadow Stage
In the shadow stage, your partner turns into your worse nightmare. Everything you formerly like in your partner is suddenly gone and everything you do not like about your partner, you project onto him/her.After the shadow stage, you go into the dependent independent stage.
(b) Dependent- Independent Stage (most relationships collapse at this one)
During this stage, one partner will become very dependent and needy and the other becomes very independent and act as if he doesn't care.The independent person will start to feel alot of temptations and suddenly, it seems as if the grass is always greener on the other side. They look confident on the outside but are in actual fact heading for the graveyard.
The dependent partner will seem to be the one with all the problems and the relationship will polarize. The amount of dependence you have, the other party will play out the exact same amount of independence. Vice versus.
Therefore, if you are the independent partner, do the opposite of what your mind tells you to. When your dependent partner starts looking more and more like a vampire, the right thing to do is not to run away. The right thing to do is the exact opposite- to lean towards your partner because we need to understand that the feelings that she is showing us is the emotions that we are suppressing within.
If you are the dependent one, however, it is time to let go and move forward. When you are holding on, your attractiveness level to your independent partner goes down. It goes even furthur down once you become needy. You are just taking from him if you say, "he is the source of my happiness!"
No one can give you happiness. It is all within you.
(c) Positive- Negative Trap
The Negative person in the relationship is the pessimist. He is the person that believes that everything is wrong and is always complaining.
The Positive one is the brave one that puts on the helmet backwards and charges on to fight the dragon. They will then come back to the house bleeding and the negative ones will complain and go "I told you so..."
But the positive ones have absolutely no idea what it takes to DO something. They just do it. And the negative ones have lots of ideas but do not know how to do it.
Negative people can see the problems happening for the next 6 months and the thing that makes the positive person most angry about the negative person is that they are RIGHT. So the negative person's pet phrase is, "I told you so..."
For these two people, it is about learning to work together. Most business training teaches us to be positive (motivational trainings) and so when the negative people have no room to release the negativity in the business or at work, they start bitching about it. The positive people hear the bitching and think there is a problem and does more positive training. But they are just asking for trouble!
There are benefits to both sides:
-ve people can see the problem but cannot fix it
+ people can fix it but they cannot see it
combined together, they become a great source of success or destruction (whatever way they choose).
The Positive one is the brave one that puts on the helmet backwards and charges on to fight the dragon. They will then come back to the house bleeding and the negative ones will complain and go "I told you so..."
But the positive ones have absolutely no idea what it takes to DO something. They just do it. And the negative ones have lots of ideas but do not know how to do it.
Negative people can see the problems happening for the next 6 months and the thing that makes the positive person most angry about the negative person is that they are RIGHT. So the negative person's pet phrase is, "I told you so..."
For these two people, it is about learning to work together. Most business training teaches us to be positive (motivational trainings) and so when the negative people have no room to release the negativity in the business or at work, they start bitching about it. The positive people hear the bitching and think there is a problem and does more positive training. But they are just asking for trouble!
There are benefits to both sides:
-ve people can see the problem but cannot fix it
+ people can fix it but they cannot see it
combined together, they become a great source of success or destruction (whatever way they choose).
Stage 3: DEAD ZONE
During the honeymoon period, you are in the period of giving. You give and give and give and give and suddenly, when you run out of things to give, you decide to take on a role (eg, role of loving husband/wife)
When you play the role, you put up a good front but don't share with your partner all the lousy things you keep in the cupboard. So that they cannot find what you keep in your cupboard, you distance yourself and stop being real. When you distance yourself, there is a loss of enthusiasm.
Note: Two very similar people will end up in deadzone longer and two very different people end up in power struggle for a longer period
In the dead zone, there are a few stages:
When you play the role, you put up a good front but don't share with your partner all the lousy things you keep in the cupboard. So that they cannot find what you keep in your cupboard, you distance yourself and stop being real. When you distance yourself, there is a loss of enthusiasm.
Note: Two very similar people will end up in deadzone longer and two very different people end up in power struggle for a longer period
In the dead zone, there are a few stages:
i) Roles rules and duties (make you no longer authentic)
This step in the dead zone is usually governed by our egos.
The idea here is that we act out roles, rules and duties to prevent ourselves from truly giving. We do all the ‘right ‘ things like behaving well, doing things for others and working hard but we do them for the wrong reasons. Mostly, we do these things not out of our love and our desire to give but rather, out of a desire to sacrifice ourselves and compensate for whatever feelings of guilt and failure that we are feeling.
Sometimes, we also set up rules of how we want things to be because we want to hide and protect the places where we have suffered before. While these rules are set up to protect us from our past pains, they are meant to be broken and thus, like all defenses, they eventually bring about what we are trying to defend.
When we play a role, we are not giving authentically. While others not close to us may not be able to tell the difference, when we are unable to give, we are in actual fact unable to give ourselves, which is the fundamental to the success of a relationship.
Our ego tells us that when we give ourselves, we become vulnerable and thus we set up defenses to ensure that this does not happen. Obviously, joining, then, doesn’t take place. Ultimately, however, our compensations bury and hide the guilt, poor self esteem, feelings of unworthiness and failure deeper which not only affects our existing relationships but any relationships we might have in future.
Many of our roles are the result of patterns that exist in our families- we were brought up to believe that we are not useful, important or special and so we bury those feelings of low self worth and compensate by making ourselves special, invaluable and important to others.
The problem is that these feelings and problems remain deep inside us and unless we open them up, recognize and heal them, we will be unable to receive from others and we will eventually head towards burn out , depression and ultimately, deadness, which is reflected in our relationships,.
The answer is to heal.
By joining and recommitting into our relationships and going through healing, we can heal ourselves, our relationships and our families.
We need to live by choice rather than by roles.
We need to live by truth rather than rules.
Giving ourselves into commitment can usually heal a whole step instead of trying to join at hundreds of points which are needed to get through one step.
The idea here is that we act out roles, rules and duties to prevent ourselves from truly giving. We do all the ‘right ‘ things like behaving well, doing things for others and working hard but we do them for the wrong reasons. Mostly, we do these things not out of our love and our desire to give but rather, out of a desire to sacrifice ourselves and compensate for whatever feelings of guilt and failure that we are feeling.
Sometimes, we also set up rules of how we want things to be because we want to hide and protect the places where we have suffered before. While these rules are set up to protect us from our past pains, they are meant to be broken and thus, like all defenses, they eventually bring about what we are trying to defend.
When we play a role, we are not giving authentically. While others not close to us may not be able to tell the difference, when we are unable to give, we are in actual fact unable to give ourselves, which is the fundamental to the success of a relationship.
Our ego tells us that when we give ourselves, we become vulnerable and thus we set up defenses to ensure that this does not happen. Obviously, joining, then, doesn’t take place. Ultimately, however, our compensations bury and hide the guilt, poor self esteem, feelings of unworthiness and failure deeper which not only affects our existing relationships but any relationships we might have in future.
Many of our roles are the result of patterns that exist in our families- we were brought up to believe that we are not useful, important or special and so we bury those feelings of low self worth and compensate by making ourselves special, invaluable and important to others.
The problem is that these feelings and problems remain deep inside us and unless we open them up, recognize and heal them, we will be unable to receive from others and we will eventually head towards burn out , depression and ultimately, deadness, which is reflected in our relationships,.
The answer is to heal.
By joining and recommitting into our relationships and going through healing, we can heal ourselves, our relationships and our families.
We need to live by choice rather than by roles.
We need to live by truth rather than rules.
Giving ourselves into commitment can usually heal a whole step instead of trying to join at hundreds of points which are needed to get through one step.
ii) Family Dynamics/ Oedipus
This step forms part of the dead zone, but instead of the feelings of being in a rut, or nearing burn out, which characterize the roles and rules step, we move deeper into feelings of deadness, eventually to the point of repulsion and even revulsion from our partners.
We may find these feelings bewildering and they are even made more so because they come from our subconscious.
The factor at work here is called ‘transference’. We are taking unfinished business especially sexuality with our siblings or parents and transferring it onto our partners.
These unfinished business may be based on feelings we repressed including a sexual attraction to a parent or sibling or perhaps a guilty knowledge that one parent liked us more than he or she liked the other parent. This is the ego’s best traps to smother sexuality, relationship and success. Every one has these traps although they are always well hidden.
Transference is our attempt to deal with this unfinished business so that we can finally heal and lay the family problems to rest. Wheat it does to our relationship, however is to kill romantic and sexual feelings for our partners as we transfer our feelings and attitudes towards our parent san siblings onto tour partners. This is a difficult step and it requires commitment and joining to see us through it. It helps to become aware of the things we might be burying in order to bring them to light and lay them to rest. Awareness and commitment, even when we least feel like it, paradoxically bring us through this step quickly and easily.
We may find these feelings bewildering and they are even made more so because they come from our subconscious.
The factor at work here is called ‘transference’. We are taking unfinished business especially sexuality with our siblings or parents and transferring it onto our partners.
These unfinished business may be based on feelings we repressed including a sexual attraction to a parent or sibling or perhaps a guilty knowledge that one parent liked us more than he or she liked the other parent. This is the ego’s best traps to smother sexuality, relationship and success. Every one has these traps although they are always well hidden.
Transference is our attempt to deal with this unfinished business so that we can finally heal and lay the family problems to rest. Wheat it does to our relationship, however is to kill romantic and sexual feelings for our partners as we transfer our feelings and attitudes towards our parent san siblings onto tour partners. This is a difficult step and it requires commitment and joining to see us through it. It helps to become aware of the things we might be burying in order to bring them to light and lay them to rest. Awareness and commitment, even when we least feel like it, paradoxically bring us through this step quickly and easily.
iii) Competition
At this stage, we use competition as a delaying tactic, in an attempt to protect ourselves from our fear. Competition stems from broken or inadequate bonding within our families. In our relationships, this leads to power struggles and then deadness and we withdraw ourselves to avoid defeat.
Competition is a hidden issue in the dead zone. We attempt to prove that we are the best, we are right and we are important. This step marks the point at which we need to let this go. We realize that our partners and our interest are the same and neither of us has to sacrifice or lose in a relationship. We must transcend our competitive thoughts to join with our partners, which encourages an honest, balanced relationship in which we both blossom.
Competition is a hidden issue in the dead zone. We attempt to prove that we are the best, we are right and we are important. This step marks the point at which we need to let this go. We realize that our partners and our interest are the same and neither of us has to sacrifice or lose in a relationship. We must transcend our competitive thoughts to join with our partners, which encourages an honest, balanced relationship in which we both blossom.
iv) Fear Of The Next Step
This is defined by our fear of moving forward. W want to know what the step before us is before we move forward and we delay ourselves endlessly by trying to find out. Our fear might be based on losing our sense of control, giving up too much or taking a risk that might not work out.
We often fear intimacy because we are afraid of what might happen when we give all of ourselves in a relationship. There is a certain comfort in knowing where we stand, even if we are unhappy in that place.
(sounds like JJ who keep asking themselves questions before they move.. waste time onli.. and then leh, keep choosing the impossible kind of lover and fall out of love and make themselves miserable just because they think they need love but refuse to commit to a relationship)
It takes great courage, trust and confidence t o take the next step, but when it is rewarded, throughout joining with our partners, we will experience another short romance period and a burst of confidence. We move forward by joining with our partners at any stage of our relationship with creates a new level of intimacy. This is the point at which we realize that the fear of the next step has been the underlying issue in all the steps of power struggles and the dead zone. Finally our willingness and courage are rewarded and our flush of success carries over to all aspects of our lives, which we can greet with new confidence.
We often fear intimacy because we are afraid of what might happen when we give all of ourselves in a relationship. There is a certain comfort in knowing where we stand, even if we are unhappy in that place.
(sounds like JJ who keep asking themselves questions before they move.. waste time onli.. and then leh, keep choosing the impossible kind of lover and fall out of love and make themselves miserable just because they think they need love but refuse to commit to a relationship)
It takes great courage, trust and confidence t o take the next step, but when it is rewarded, throughout joining with our partners, we will experience another short romance period and a burst of confidence. We move forward by joining with our partners at any stage of our relationship with creates a new level of intimacy. This is the point at which we realize that the fear of the next step has been the underlying issue in all the steps of power struggles and the dead zone. Finally our willingness and courage are rewarded and our flush of success carries over to all aspects of our lives, which we can greet with new confidence.
iv) Rock-Swamp Step
This is the step where one partner becomes stoical, the other becomes hysterical. It resembles the independent,- dependent step of the power struggle stage but there are several fundamental differences.We are playing roles here too, but they are based around different kinds of feelings. We feel deadness rather than pain at this step and there is no real question of balancing the needs of each other by playing opposite roles. Here, each partner feels he or she is better and that their ways and needs are more deserving than the other. There is a certain self righteousness involved.
Rock figures are the heroic types who normally as children felt like they had to give up their lives to sacrifice for their families. They feel that they must do the same in their present relationships. They are the ‘designated givers’ of the relationships. They are typically romantic and generous. These feelings and needs of the rock are typically underplayed and suppressed and their soft bellies are always protected form anything that might expose them.
Swamp figures are incredibly needy. They are likely to have feel unloved as children and these feelings are carried into adulthood. They need intimacy and constant confirmation of their specialness and importance. Swamps need to love intensively and continuously and despite the nest efforts of the rocks, they are typically unsatisfied by what they get. On the other hand, swamps are more in touch with their feelings and can educate the rocks about them if they do not become emotionally indulgent. This will heal the rock’s dissociation.
The scenario is this: The rock brings everything their resources allow to the relationship, but it is never enough. The swamps become more hysterical and the rocks will pull away and become more stoical. Rocks feel overwhelmed by the needs of swamps and feel that if they venture into their territory, they will literally be swallowed up. Ultimately, swamps behave the way the do to hide deep neediness inside. They feel unworthy and unlovable and so demand more and more to try to right the imbalance they feel inside. Rocks behave the way they do because of guilt but they balance their feelings by over compensating, becoming frenzied givers. Now in the end can’t give enough and just give up.
The answer is for rocks to give themselves to the relationships wholeheartedly. This usually begins with an apology.
When the rock apologizes for how the swamp is feeling, the swamp feel recognized and loved. He or she feels she has been heard and that the giver is not giving out of habit or because it is expected but because he or she really cares.
In return, swamp needs to give, instead of expecting, taking and complaining. Giving gifts, arranging special dinners, doing things the rock’s way for a change are some of the ways these can be achieved.
Rocks to not expect to receive anything in return for their giving and so when it occurs, they are always touched deeply inside and a new level of intimacy and understanding is reached. With humour, joining and integration and commitment, we can heal the problems that lie beneath our behaviors and use this step to join with our partners to move forward together.
The sick partner may have been ill on off since the beginning of the relationship and so they use their ill health as an appeal of love, attention and the need to be taken care of.
Being ill becomes part of their self-identity, and they are frightened to move on from this step because they are fearful of giving up such a big part of themselves.
It is possible that for most parts of their lives, they were given the attention they craved by being unwell and they are normally unwilling to take the risk that they will be loved and taken care of as much as they wish if they are seen to be fit and well.
Self-abusers don’t take care of themselves. But they hope, underneath their devil-may-care attitude, that someone will care for them, or make the care for themselves. Self-abusers are normally too busy, work too hard, eat too much, drink too much, play too hard and become injured. They choose not to take care of themselves as kind of a test to see if they can find someone who cares for them more than they do themselves. If someone loves them enough to stand up to them, although they might resist every step of the way, they will l feel worthy, values and able to care for themselves.
Both behavior hide patterns of fear and the need for outside approval and self-hatred. Underneath it all, we believe we deserve to be punished or we are setting out to wreak a revenge on someone who has not given us the love, care that we deserve. By choosing to be ill or working ourselves to the point of oblivious, we are sending our a message that reads. ‘You will be sorry when you see the state I am in now”.
Both of these behaviors are an attempt to accomplish our misguided strategy to attract love and attention. But they don’t work and they will NEVER bring us happiness.
Healing can be achieve by integrating these opposite styles through joining, communication, forgiveness, self understanding and commitment, we ca n work through pain and fear to find everything we ever wanted in our relationships.
Note: As children, if our parents are myopic, we need to find out which part of our life we are fearful of moving forward in and move forward. Our parents might or might not move forward but at least when we move forward, it will no longer bother us that they are not moving forward. If we stop to help them and get stuck, we are in sacrifice.
Rock figures are the heroic types who normally as children felt like they had to give up their lives to sacrifice for their families. They feel that they must do the same in their present relationships. They are the ‘designated givers’ of the relationships. They are typically romantic and generous. These feelings and needs of the rock are typically underplayed and suppressed and their soft bellies are always protected form anything that might expose them.
Swamp figures are incredibly needy. They are likely to have feel unloved as children and these feelings are carried into adulthood. They need intimacy and constant confirmation of their specialness and importance. Swamps need to love intensively and continuously and despite the nest efforts of the rocks, they are typically unsatisfied by what they get. On the other hand, swamps are more in touch with their feelings and can educate the rocks about them if they do not become emotionally indulgent. This will heal the rock’s dissociation.
The scenario is this: The rock brings everything their resources allow to the relationship, but it is never enough. The swamps become more hysterical and the rocks will pull away and become more stoical. Rocks feel overwhelmed by the needs of swamps and feel that if they venture into their territory, they will literally be swallowed up. Ultimately, swamps behave the way the do to hide deep neediness inside. They feel unworthy and unlovable and so demand more and more to try to right the imbalance they feel inside. Rocks behave the way they do because of guilt but they balance their feelings by over compensating, becoming frenzied givers. Now in the end can’t give enough and just give up.
The answer is for rocks to give themselves to the relationships wholeheartedly. This usually begins with an apology.
When the rock apologizes for how the swamp is feeling, the swamp feel recognized and loved. He or she feels she has been heard and that the giver is not giving out of habit or because it is expected but because he or she really cares.
In return, swamp needs to give, instead of expecting, taking and complaining. Giving gifts, arranging special dinners, doing things the rock’s way for a change are some of the ways these can be achieved.
Rocks to not expect to receive anything in return for their giving and so when it occurs, they are always touched deeply inside and a new level of intimacy and understanding is reached. With humour, joining and integration and commitment, we can heal the problems that lie beneath our behaviors and use this step to join with our partners to move forward together.
v) Sick/ Myopic/ Self Abuse Stage
At this stage, one partner gets sick and the other focuses on work. The extend that one is sick is the extend that the other focuses on work. Usually when the myopic one dies, the sick one recovers and when the sick one dies, the myopic one starts to not be busy anymore.This is the last step of the dead zone. But its symptoms may have appeared right at the start of the relationship. In this scenario, both are calling out and even competing for love in completely different ways.The sick partner may have been ill on off since the beginning of the relationship and so they use their ill health as an appeal of love, attention and the need to be taken care of.
Being ill becomes part of their self-identity, and they are frightened to move on from this step because they are fearful of giving up such a big part of themselves.
It is possible that for most parts of their lives, they were given the attention they craved by being unwell and they are normally unwilling to take the risk that they will be loved and taken care of as much as they wish if they are seen to be fit and well.
Self-abusers don’t take care of themselves. But they hope, underneath their devil-may-care attitude, that someone will care for them, or make the care for themselves. Self-abusers are normally too busy, work too hard, eat too much, drink too much, play too hard and become injured. They choose not to take care of themselves as kind of a test to see if they can find someone who cares for them more than they do themselves. If someone loves them enough to stand up to them, although they might resist every step of the way, they will l feel worthy, values and able to care for themselves.
Both behavior hide patterns of fear and the need for outside approval and self-hatred. Underneath it all, we believe we deserve to be punished or we are setting out to wreak a revenge on someone who has not given us the love, care that we deserve. By choosing to be ill or working ourselves to the point of oblivious, we are sending our a message that reads. ‘You will be sorry when you see the state I am in now”.
Both of these behaviors are an attempt to accomplish our misguided strategy to attract love and attention. But they don’t work and they will NEVER bring us happiness.
Healing can be achieve by integrating these opposite styles through joining, communication, forgiveness, self understanding and commitment, we ca n work through pain and fear to find everything we ever wanted in our relationships.
Note: As children, if our parents are myopic, we need to find out which part of our life we are fearful of moving forward in and move forward. Our parents might or might not move forward but at least when we move forward, it will no longer bother us that they are not moving forward. If we stop to help them and get stuck, we are in sacrifice.
Stage 4: PARTNERSHIP
When we heal the deadzone, we go back into a level of partnership where we exhibit interdependence.
We then move into a deeper layer of honeymoon.
Enjoy it while it lasts though... because we will enjoy the sweetness till the next layer comes up and you start feeling the problems again.
As you can see, relationships can be the biggest doorway of moving forward or a biggest trap. Make your choice wisely... Do you prefer to use your relationships to trap yourself in limbo, or do you prefer to use them as mirrors of our soul and guiding light to bring us to greater success and happiness?
We then move into a deeper layer of honeymoon.
Enjoy it while it lasts though... because we will enjoy the sweetness till the next layer comes up and you start feeling the problems again.
As you can see, relationships can be the biggest doorway of moving forward or a biggest trap. Make your choice wisely... Do you prefer to use your relationships to trap yourself in limbo, or do you prefer to use them as mirrors of our soul and guiding light to bring us to greater success and happiness?
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